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Glenda's avatar

This was a timely article. I could barely read it, because I am so angry and feeling like a victim. My downstairs neighbour is hard of hearing and plays his TV loud to the point I hear it in my condo. It has been going on for sometime (2 years) and I call down on a regular basis to ask him to turn it down, he does for a few minutes. Yet, when I first moved in he was disturbed by noises from me at 5am in morning (that is the time I wake up), so I am very conscious and considerate of him, but he does not give me the same consideration. I am thinking of moving (at great cost that I can’t afford), but I don’t know if that is the answer. I want to file a formal complaint with the condo board, but he is on the condo board. I am a victim in my mind…..the ego rant is constant.

Yet, there is a sense that this ego rant, or what I think is a noise problem is something other than what it appears to be. Your article pointed to it, but there is such resistance to look at the fear, the separation . The ego mind thinks the ONLY solution is to move or start a war of playing loud music at 5am in the morning to get back at the guy. I want to hurt him back because he doesn’t honour me. Wow, this kind of response feels so awful. The ego’s cry for action is very much obscuring the truth. There is a sense “I am not upset for the reason I think”.

At this point I have no idea what to do, but open to higher guidance. There is such a familiar feeling of helplessness and hopelessness, that I am so bad for wanting things to be different that I will never receive guidance. It is amazing how what I think is a “noise” problem is revealing deeper blocks to peace. As always, thank you Sean. 🙏

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Jenine Baines's avatar

I needed to read this today absolutely. Thank you, Sean. "A big shift in my life occurred when I stopped being afraid of fear. When I could accept it as part of my experience, neither more nor less important than any other part, it was easier to look at and relate to. It became possible to let ego rant without obeying it."

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